Muri iki gihe, hari uburyo bwinshi bwo gufasha abageze mu zabukuru muri sosiyete, nko umugore, uwo mwashakanye mushya, abana, abavandimwe, abarera abana, imiryango, sosiyete, nibindi. Ariko mu by'ukuri, ugomba kwishingikiriza kuri wowe ubwawe kugira ngo wibesheho!
Nuhora wishingikiriza ku bandi mu gihe cy'ikiruhuko cy'izabukuru, ntuzumva ufite umutekano. Kuko uko byagenda kose, baba abana bawe, abavandimwe bawe, cyangwa inshuti zawe, ntibazahora bari kumwe nawe. Iyo ufite ibibazo, ntibazaboneka igihe icyo ari cyo cyose n'aho ari ho hose kugira ngo bagufashe kubikemura.
Mu by’ukuri, buri wese ni umuntu wigenga kandi afite ubuzima bwe bwite agomba kubaho. Ntushobora gusaba abandi kukwishingikirizaho igihe cyose, kandi abandi ntibashobora kwishyira mu mwanya wawe kugira ngo bagufashe.
Tugeze mu za bukuru, twamaze gusaza! Ni uko dufite ubuzima bwiza kandi dufite ubwenge busobanutse ubu. Ni nde twakwitega mu gihe tuzaba tugeze mu za bukuru? Bigomba kuganirwaho mu byiciro bitandukanye.
Icyiciro cya mbere: Imyaka 60-70
Nyuma yo kujya mu kiruhuko cy'izabukuru, nugera ku myaka mirongo itandatu kugeza kuri mirongo irindwi, ubuzima bwawe buzaba bwiza, kandi ubuzima bwawe bushobora kukwemerera. Rya bike niba ubishaka, wambare bike niba ubishaka, kandi ukine bike niba ubishaka.
Reka kwibabaza, iminsi yawe irabaze, koresha neza. Bika amafaranga, komeza inzu, kandi ushyireho inzira zawe zo guhunga.
Icyiciro cya kabiri: nta ndwara nyuma y'imyaka 70
Nyuma y'imyaka mirongo irindwi, uba udafite ibyago, kandi uracyashobora kwiyitaho. Iki si ikibazo gikomeye, ariko ugomba kumenya ko ushaje cyane. Buhoro buhoro, imbaraga zawe n'ingufu zawe bizashira, kandi ingaruka zawe zizarushaho kuba mbi. Mu gihe urya, genda buhoro kugira ngo wirinde ko wamira cyangwa ngo ugwe. Reka kwinangira umutima kandi witeho!
Bamwe ndetse bita ku bana bo mu gisekuru cya gatatu ubuzima bwabo bwose. Igihe kirageze cyo kwikunda no kwiyitaho. Koroshya ibintu byose, fasha mu isuku, kandi ukomeze kugira ubuzima bwiza igihe cyose gishoboka. Ihe umwanya uhagije wo kubaho wigenga. Bizakoroha kubaho udasabye ubufasha.
Icyiciro cya gatatu: kurwara nyuma y'imyaka 70
Iki ni igihe cya nyuma cy'ubuzima kandi nta cyo ugomba gutinya. Iyo witeguye mbere y'igihe, ntuzaba ubabaye cyane.
Injira mu kigo cyita ku bageze mu za bukuru cyangwa ukoreshe umuntu wo kwita ku bageze mu za bukuru mu rugo. Hazabaho uburyo bwo kubikora mu bushobozi bwawe kandi uko bikwiye. Ihame ni ukudakorera abana bawe imitwaro myinshi cyangwa ngo wongerere abana bawe imitwaro myinshi mu mitekerereze, mu mirimo yo mu rugo no mu by'imari.
Icyiciro cya kane: icyiciro cya nyuma cy'ubuzima
Iyo ubwenge bwawe butunganye, umubiri wawe urwaye indwara zidakira, kandi ubuzima bwawe bukaba bubi cyane, ugomba gutinyuka guhangana n'urupfu kandi ntukifuze ko abagize umuryango wawe bazongera kugutabara, kandi ntukifuze ko abavandimwe n'inshuti bagupfusha ubusa bitari ngombwa.
Duhereye kuri ibi, ni nde abantu bareba iyo bageze mu za bukuru? Niwe ubwawe, niwe ubwawe, niwe ubwawe.
Nk’uko bivugwa, “Niba ufite imicungire y’imari, ntuzaba ukennye, niba ufite gahunda, ntuzaba urimo akajagari, kandi niba witeguye, ntuzaba uhugiyemo.” Nk’ingabo zishinzwe abageze mu zabukuru, ese twiteguye? Igihe cyose uzakora imyiteguro mbere y’igihe, ntuzaba uhangayikishijwe n’ubuzima bwawe mu zabukuru mu gihe kizaza.
Tugomba kwishingikiriza ku busaza bwacu no kuvuga mu ijwi riranguruye tuti: Ni njye ufite ijambo rya nyuma mu busaza bwanjye!
Igihe cyo kohereza ubutumwa: Werurwe-12-2024
